The10_90Rule_withChinese1[2]

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1、作者:StephenCoveyDiscoverthe90/10Principle.發現了90/10的定律。Itwillchangeyourlife(atleastthewayyoureacttosituations).它將改變你的一生（最低限度，它將改變你對不同情況的反應）。Whatisthisprinciple?10%oflifeismadeupofwhathappenstoyou.90%oflifeisdecidedbyhowyoureact.90/10的定律是什麼？生命的10%是由你的際遇所組成，餘下的90%則

2、由你的反應而決定。Whatdoesthismean?Wereallyhavenocontrolover10%ofwhathappenstous.Wecannotstopthecarfrombreakingdown.Theplanewillbelatearriving,whichthrowsourwholescheduleoff.Adrivermaycutusoffintraffic.這意味著什麼？我們無法掌握那10%的際遇。我們無法阻止行程因汽車壞掉、航班誤點，甚或車子拋錨而延誤。Wehavenocontrolove

3、rthis10%.Theother90%isdifferent.Youdeterminetheother90%.我們無法控制那10%的際遇，但餘下的90%則不然。你可以決定餘下的90%。How?……….Byyourreaction.如何？…憑你的反應。Youcannotcontrolaredlight.Butyoucancontrolyourreaction.Don'tletpeoplefoolyou;YOUcancontrolhowyoureact.你不能控制交通燈轉紅，但你能夠控制你的反應。別讓他人愚弄你，你能夠

4、控制你的反應。Let'suseanexample.讓我們舉個例子。Youareeatingbreakfastwithyourfamily.Yourdaughterknocksoveracupofcoffeeontoyourbusinessshirt.Youhavenocontroloverwhatjusthappened.你與你的家人吃早餐，你的女兒不小心把咖啡潑倒在你的襯衫上，這是你無法控制的情況。Whathappensnextwillbedeterminedbyhowyoureact.下一步將如何則由你的反應而定

5、。Youcurse.你開始責罵。Youharshlyscoldyourdaughterforknockingthecupover.Shebreaksdownintears.Afterscoldingher,youturntoyourspouseandcriticizeherforplacingthecuptooclosetotheedgeofthetable.Ashortverbalbattlefollows.Youstormupstairsandchangeyourshirt.Backdownstairs,youf

6、indyourdaughterhasbeentoobusycryingtofinishbreakfastandgetreadyforschool.Shemissesthebus.你狠狠地臭罵女兒一頓，令她陷於痛苦之中。然後你又把怨氣發洩在太太身上，責難她把咖啡放在桌邊。接踵而來的是一場短暫的罵戰。你生氣地上樓更換你的襯衫。你下樓，然後發現你的女兒正哭著吃早餐並趕著回校。結果，她錯過了巴士。Yourspousemustleaveimmediatelyforwork.Yourushtothecaranddriveyour

7、daughtertoschool.Becauseyouarelate,youdrive40milesanhourina30mphspeedlimit.你的太太趕著上班，你匆忙開車把女兒送回學校。因為你已經遲到了，你以時速四十英里在一條限速三十英里上的道路前進。Aftera15-minutedelayandthrowing$60trafficfineaway,youarriveatschool.Yourdaughterrunsintothebuildingwithoutsayinggoodbye.Afterarrivi

8、ngattheoffice20minuteslate,youfindyouforgotyourbriefcase.Yourdayhasstartedterrible.Asitcontinues,itseemstogetworseandworse.Youlookforwardtocominghome.你付了六十元道路罰款，終於抵達學校，並已遲到十