综合英语二补充阅读材料.docx

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补充阅读材料(BookII)Unit 1 LoveDr. Ce George BoereeHuman happiness seems to be strongly tied to having close and satisfying relationships with friends, family, and, of course, a partner. The desire for a partner is so powerful in human beings that one writer suggested the basic unit of human life is not the individual, but the couple・Love is basically a matter of caring about someone elseHs well-being as much or more than you care about your own. If they feel pain or sadness, you suffer with them. If they find happiness, you feel happy for them. Strong love even involves sacrificing your own happiness and even sometimes your own life for the other person.There have been many suggestions as to various types of love・ For example, some have differentiated between romantic love, which is based on passion, companionate love, which is based on companionship and commitment, and consummate love, which has both.Another way to classify love is in terms of the people involved. Parental love, subdivided into maternal and paternal love, is the love a parent feels for his or her children. Filial love is in turn the love a child has for his or her parents. Friendship is, of course, the love good friends feel for each other. And another form of love is compassion, which isnHt tied to any one person but rather is felt towards all people and sometimes even all life. The love we feel for that nspecial someone11 is no doubt the most complex, involving as it does, intimacy, passion, and commitment. We traditionally think of it as heterosexual, but the exact same feelings occur in homosexual relationships.Love between parent and child very clearly has some biological roots. There is a similarity between the attachment between parent and child and the instinctual behaviors of animals that makes that obvious・ However,human beings never seem to be totally determined by instincts, and we have countless cases of people who treat their children or their parents very badly.Love between friends seems to begin with commonalities: We are attracted to people who are similar to us. Because we share certain qualities, being with others like us validates us, gives us a sense of worth. After all, they like us, and we like them, so we must be okay. Of course, things are rarely simple with people: Sometimes we are attracted to people precisely because of our differences. In some cases, itus a matter of wishing you were more like the other person. In other cases, you feel a strong sense of comradery, not because you are similar, but because both of you are so different from everyone else around you!When it comes to the love between partners, it usually begins with some degree of sexual attraction, along with the kinds of things that attract one to potential friends. It is likely that some of this love is instinctual, in the same way that the love between parents and children is partially instinctual. After all, many animals seem to bond in the same way. The biological purp。省略部分。ess:Forgiveness is not forgetting.The pain may not be completely gone. One can forgive and still grieve a loss or feel pain from a wound.Damage and wounds can take time to repair.Forgiveness does not deny responsibility for behavior. You have simply committed to not hold the other person in debt.Key Point:Every person is doing their best given their upbringing and their conditioning. We each are doing the very best we can with what we have been given. As we know better we do better.Ways to forgive:An individual exercise in forgiveness:Write down with pen and paper all of the things that you have done wrong, imperative that you write・ Word processing is not the same.Read the list.A. Now say MI did the best that I could with the knowledge that I had at the time.I now forgive myself and go free.nB. Destroy (burn or shred) the list.C・ Repeat the exercise for each of the other people who have hurt you.D. Now begin anew to live your life without the burden of unforgiving pain - it is unnecessary suffering.Individual forgiveness - forgive yourself forjudging yourself for not being worthy of love, happiness and joy. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of happiness. You are worthy of joy. Stop judging yourself. Have the strength and courage to allow yourself to be vulnerable. Be kind and loving to yourself. Practice holding a positive vision for yourself. Make choices that support you in moving forward in your life・ It is all about choices. Choose to forgive yourself and then move forward and let go of your past. Live for today and enjoy the journey of life itself.A couplers exercise in forgiveness.We recommend that you do this exercise using the principles of positive, loving communication. If your communication is a problem, you may wish to read some books on the subject such as Talk to Me: How to Create Positive Loving Communication or take some communication training. Once you are able to talk about difficult subjects, you might try the following exercise.> Set an agenda to work on one issue at a time. You both must agree that you are ready to talk about that issue.Using active listening techniques such as The CoupleHs Fair Exchange Process or Speaker Listener and ground rules that you have agreed to, discuss the pain and concerns that you have about the issue. The objective is to understand how you each feel about the issue. Do not point the finger, do not place blame, but try to understand the consequences of each otherMs actions. You must show respect and care for each other.The offender asks for forgiveness. Apologies are extremely powerful. Understand the pain and feelings of the offended person.The offended person agrees to forgive. Commit the issue to the past without getting even or holding the offender in deb匸 The issue will not be used as a weapon in future conflicts.The offender agrees to change their behavior as appropriate.You both move forward with a commitment to create a better future.
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