a_dialogue_with_oneself[1]

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1、ADialogueWithOneselfJ.KrishnamurtiTableofContentADialogueWithOneself.........................................................................................3BrockwoodPark1stPublicDialogue30thAugust1977........................................92ADialogueWithOnesel

2、fIrealizethatlovecannotexistwhenthereisjealousy;lovecannotexistwhenthereisattachment.Now,isitpossibleformetobefreeofjealousyandattachment?IrealizethatIdonotlove.Thatisafact.Iamnotgoingtodeceivemyself;IamnotgoingtopretendtomywifethatIloveher.Idonotknowwhatloveis.B

3、utIdoknowthatIamjealousandIdoknowthatIamterriblyattachedtoherandthatinattachmentthereisfear,thereisjealousy,anxiety;thereisasenseofdependence.IdonotliketodependbutIdependbecauseIamlonely;Iamshovedaroundintheoffice,inthefactoryandIcomehomeandIwanttofeelcomfortandc

4、ompanionship,toescapefrommyself.NowIaskmyself:howamItobefreeofthisattachment?Iamtakingthatjustasanexample.Atfirst,Iwanttorunawayfromthequestion.Idonotknowhowitisgoingtoendupwithmywife.WhenIamreallydetachedfromhermyrelationshiptohermaychange.Shemightbeattachedtome

5、andImightnotbeattachedtoherortoanyotherwoman.ButIamgoingtoinvestigate.SoIwillnotrunawayfromwhatIimaginemightbetheconsequenceofbeingtotallyfreeofallattachment.Idonotknowwhatloveis,butIseeveryclearly,definitely,withoutanydoubt,thatattachmenttomywifemeansjealousy,po

6、ssession,fear,anxietyandIwantfreedomfromallthat.SoIbegintoenquire;IlookforamethodandIgetcaughtinasystem.Somegurusays:"Iwillhelpyoutobedetached,dothisandthis;practisethisandthis."IacceptwhathesaysbecauseIseetheimportanceofbeingfreeandhepromisesmethatifIdowhathesay

7、sIwillhavereward.ButIseethatwaythatIamlookingforreward.IseehowsillyIam;wantingtobefreeandgettingattachedtoareward.IdonotwanttobeattachedandyetIfindmyselfgettingattachedtotheideathatsomebody,orsomebook,orsomemethod,willrewardmewithfreedomfromattachment.So,therewar

8、dbecomesanattachment.SoIsay:"LookwhatIhavedone;becareful,donotgetcaughtinthattrap."Whetheritisawoman,a3method,oranidea,itisstillattachment.Iamverywatchfulnowfo