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1、Dowereallyknowourbestfriends阅读理解附答案 Dowereallyknowourbestfriends Ilikemyclosefriendsalot,andyet,onanalmostdailybasis,theyshockedme.Ihaveafriendwhothinksvotingisawasteoftime;Ihaveanotherfriendwhonevertakesanyarrangementtomeetatagiventimeandplaceseriously. It’sgene
2、rallyheldthatfriendsarepeoplewithwhomwechoosetodeveloprelationshipsbecausewefindtheirpersonalitiesagreeable,orsimilartoourown,andyetexperienceregularlycontradictsthis.Whatisafriend,reallyAllthatonecansafelysayisthatafriendissomeoneonelikesandwishestoseeagain. Thetr
3、uthisthatwedon’tknowourfriends.Numerousstudiesshowthatwetendtoassumeourfriendsagreewithusmorethantheyreallydo.Thestrikingpartisthattheproblemdoesn’tappeartolessenasafriendshipdeepens.WhentheresearchersMichaelGillandBillSwannquestionedstudentssharingrooms,theyfoundth
4、at,astimepassed,peoplebecameevenmoreconfidentintheaccuracyoftheirjudgmentsabouttheother,andyet,inreality,thejudgmentsgrewnomoreaccurate.Twopeoplemightbecomedearfriends,yetremainignorantaboutvastareasofeachother’sinnerlives. Thisseemsstrange,untilyouconsider,thatman
5、yofthebenefitsthatfriendshipprovidesdon’tnecessarilydependonperfectfamiliarity;theycomefromsomethingclosertoreliability.Friendshipmaybelessaboutbeingdrawntosomeone’spersonalitythanaboutfindingsomeonewillingtokeepyoucompany,orlendanear.Afriendprovidesthe“social-ident
6、itysupport”wedesire.Youneedn’tbeaclosematchwithsomeone,nordeeplyfamiliarwiththeirmind.Andonceafriendshiphasbegun,youwanttolikeit,ifonlytoconfirmthatyoumadetherightdecision.Wedon’twanttoknoweverythingaboutourfriends.Wedon’tbasefriendshipsonwhatwelearnaboutpeople;wede
7、cidewhattolearnaboutpeople,andwhattoignore,basedonhavingdecidedtobefriends. Perhapsthere’ssomethingmovingaboutviewingfriendshipasanagreementtokeepeachothercompany,ignoreeachother’sfaultsandnotprobe(刨根问底)toodeeplyinwaysthatmightweakenthefriendship.Perhapsatruefriend
8、issomeonewhodoesn’taskmanyawkwardquestions. 67.Whydoestheauthortellthestoriesofhistwofriendsinthefirstparagraph A.Toprovidebackgroundinf
