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1、建立信任(Confidencebuilding) thefoundationofanyrelationship,ethingthatcanbebuiltethingthatiscultivatedthroughconsistenthabitsinyourinteractions.thefolloothers.refusetohaveanyhiddenagendas.youmightthinkyoucanpullafastoneonsomeoneelse.youcan’t.mostpeoplehavegoodintuitionandeventhoughth
2、eymaynotbeabletoconsciouslydeterminethatyouarehidingsomething,theyverylikelyethatifyouaren’tfullyforthing,otherpeoplearen’teither.oretrustilartothepreviouspoint.onlysayean.beimpeccablyhonestanipulateothers.don`tgivefakepliments,patronizeothersorsaysomethingjustbecauseyouthinkyouar
3、esupposedto.again,peoplehavegoodbsdetectors.uchormorethanyouget.eone`slife,theynotonlyfeellikeyouareontheirside,theyalsohavetheurgetoreciprocate.inbusinessrelationships,thismeansaliseandover-deliver.inpersonalrelationships,focusingonmeetingtheneedsoftheotherpersoninsteadoftakingin
4、ordertogetyouroet. 4.bepresent thelastthinganyoneeoneeone,makethemyourprimaryfocus.don’tthinkaboutetalkingtoyourspouse.don’tthinkaboutlifeathomeeansqualitytimeandqualitytimebuildstrust. 5.alpersonalattacksduringargumentstogossipingbehindsomeone’sback. alemberthatanotherperson’
5、sinherentanbeingentitlesthemtobetreatedrespect,itisverynaturalfortrusttoflourish. 6.takeresponsibility essup,akingexcusesmayhelpyouintheshorttermbutinthelongrun,itdoesnothingforyourcharacterortheleveloftrustyouaregiven.accountabilityisararetraitthesedaysostpeopleindreader,theonl
6、ytheotherperson.benotonlyanypeopleareafraidtogiveyoufeedback,especiallyifitsnegative,outoffearthattheyoreentandadjustyourbehaviouraccordingly. 8.takecriticismightbetrue.closingyourselfofffromcriticismhastheeffectofclosingoffallmunication. insomecases,thecriticismmayindeedbeinacc
7、urate.intheseinstances,youhavetheopportunitytoshopathy.trytounderstandtheproblemfromtheotherperson’spointofvieisjustathinlyveiledattackthatstemsfromadeeperupsettheymayhaveaturemanner:besincereandrespectful.certainty.thestrengththatyoumunicatebysettingboundariesbuildstrust–eoneknoe
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