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1、Chapter1WhatMakesaManFallinLove?Whywecan’tletloveinuntilyou’veshownustheway—andthesimplewordsthatcanunleashourdeepestaffections.Question:Guys,doyoubelieveyou’vemetyoursoulmate?Yes,I’mwithherrightnow:....................53percentYes,butwe’renolongertogether:................14
2、percentYes,butwewerenevertogetherasacouple:.........9percentNo:......................................24percentHINKOFAGREATRELATIONSHIPASthoughitwereagreatmeal:Adelicious,meatysteakofsexualpassionaccompaniedbyafine,delicatewineofromanceandcommitment.BothofuswantTitall—theperf
3、ect,satisfyingcourse.Andweneedboth—steakbyitselfisdryandunsatisfying;andwinewillgetyoutipsy,butitwon’tsatisfyyourhunger.Now,beforethemetaphorpolicerevokemylicense,letmesimplypushthisanalogyalittlefurther:Menarealittlemorefocusedonthemeatoftherelationship,andwomenabitmoreonth
4、ewine.Butbothsexeswanttogetupfromthetablecompletelysatisfied.12Men,Love&SexNeedevidence?Morethanthree-fourthsofmenbelieveinsoulmates(seeabove).Andwhenweaskedourguystochoosebetweenmeetingtheloveoftheirlifeorhavingamazingsexforsixmonths,92percentchosefallinginlove.(Theother8pe
5、rcentwereprobablyMaximreaders.)Considerwhatthesethreemensaidabouttheexperienceoffallinginlove:q“Weneedtofeellove,loyalty,andchemistryaboveallelse,”saysIan,31.q“Menalsofeelthebutterfliesandgiddinessthatwomendowhenthey’reinlove,”saysRobert,26.q“Womendon’trealizemostguysareinlov
6、elongbeforetheyarewillingtoadmitittoanyone,”saysDrew,30.Sowhythendoesitalwaysseemlikewomenareleadingtherelationshiptowardcommitment,andmenneedtobedraggedalonglikeapreschoolertoadentistSAYTHIS,appointment?Becauseintheearly-onStrat-NOTTHAT!egogameofdating,weneedtoseewhereSAYTH
7、IS:Schoolwasayou’removingfirst.Considerthis:Lessthanbreeze,butIwasawfulathalfofmensaythey’retypicallythefirstoneskegstands.NOT:Igraduatedmagnatosay”Iloveyou”inarelationship,andmorecumlaude.womenthanmeninitiallybroachthesubjectBECAUSE:Perfectionisoftakingtherelationshiptothen
8、extlevel.intimidating.Flawsarelovable.ThatpointstothenotionthatwhatmenSAYTH
