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1、对周岩事件的思考最近网上关于“少女周岩遭毁容”的事件传的沸沸扬扬，听后我非常震惊，于是跟踪看了大量的报道和贴吧，很有感慨。这里不去讨论谁对谁错，也不去追究真相，因为事情的发生对两个家庭都是无可挽回的毁灭性的打击，我也不想去给他们任何一方增加舆论的压力，只简单说说我自己的想法。可能是口己也快到了谈婚论嫁的年龄，所以这件事情反馈给我的是一个关于恋爱交友的信息:交友要慎重，恋爱更是如此。个人觉得，如果选择了一个不适合的恋爱对象，必然会影响到以后的恋爱和婚姻,也有可能波及到一生的幸福，更有甚者，像周，也许还将会带来极大
2、的灾难…确实有些不敢想象。不过爱情应该述是美好的，相比惨案而言，爱情佳话也不在少数。所以总结一下我的恋爱观：付出爱，得到爱。但是，爱，是有条件的，是需要看对象的。Recently,theeventflyingaroundonline,whichwasaboutanadolescentbeautifulgirlZhouYanwhowasdisfiguredbyaboynamedTaoRukun.AfterhearingthebadnewsIjustcan'tbelieve,howeverit'saccurate・
3、ThefollowingdaysItrackedahugenumberofreportsonit,andIwasextremelytouched.Howcanittakesplace?It'ssoincredible!Ievencanftfindtherightwordstodescribemyfeelings.Here,inthiswritingI'mnotgoingtodiscusswhoisrightornot,nottopursuethetrutheither.Theoccurrenceisagreat
4、paintobothfamilies,soIthinkwewouldbetternottoputanyofthemintothepressureofpublicopinion.Thefollowingjustexpresssomethingaboutmythoughts.InthatIhavereachedtheageofdating,theeventremindmethatweshouldbecautious,beintenselycautiouswhenmakingfriends,especiallygir
5、lorboyfriend.Personally,Ifyouchoosethewrongperson,youmayargueovertrivialmattersalldaylong,thusendupwithdivorce,orevendevastateyourwholelifehappiness,likeZhou.Actually,nobodycanevenimaginethedisaster.Neverthelessinourmind,loveshouldbewonderful,whileincontrast
6、withtragedies,therearemorewonderfullovestories.Lovefreesusofalltheweightandpaininlife,oritshouldn'tbecalledlove.Asthesayinggoes,inthatsomeonedoesn'tloveyouthewayyouintentthemtoE-cigarette,doesn'tmeanthattheydon'tloveyouwithalltheyhave.Lovephilosophyisdiffere
7、ntfromeachother,whichgeneratesdifferentbeliefonlove,mineis"Loveoneanotherandyouwillbehappy.Nonthelessit'sassimpleandasdifficultasthat.nSo,loveisnoneofyourappearance,richorsomethingelse,it'sjustyourheart,yourdeepfeelings.Andjustpayyourlovefirstthenyouwillgeti
8、tnaturally.Stillthereisonepointtobestressed,makesuretotaketherightperson.
