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1、WhentheEnglishAmericacountrypersonexpressesthepraiseorthecongratulationtoourChinese,weevenifintheheartarehappy,onthemouthunavoidablywantsmodest.ThisprobablyisourChinesethinks"Modest"Isonekindofmoralexcellencereason,thoughtnotlikethis,istotheothersdisrespecting.Forexample:Foreign旅游者to
2、conductsatouryoungladytosaythat,"YourEnglishisquitefluent.(yourEnglishsaidverymuchfluently)."Thispositionconductsatouryoungladymodestlytoreplythat,"No,noMyEnglishisverypoor.(MyEnglishdoesnotsayisnotgood)."RegardingChinese'smodestreply,theEnglishbeautifulwomencanmisunderstandforopposi
3、tepartyarescepticaltoownjudgment.Alsoforexample:Atadanceparty,anAmericanpraisesaChinesewomantosaythat,"Youlookbeautifultoday(youveryareattractivetoday)."ThisChinesewomanmodestlysaidthat,"Where(where),Where(where)."LuckilythisAmericanunderstandsaChinesecustom,extremelyingeniouslysaid:
4、"Every-where(everywhere)."AccordingtoEnglishbeautifulwoman'scustom,whentheypraisetheothers,alwayshopedtheothersexpressgratitudethewaywhichorrefreshedlyacceptstodoanswer,butdidnothopebymodest,thepolitewaydoesanswers.Regardingabovetwopraises,theflattery,theEnglishbeautifulwoman'sreplyi
5、s:"Thankyou!""Thankyouforsayingso."8.IntheEnglishtoChineselanguagesaysgoodbyetheuselanguageorthewaynotgreatlyaresame.TheChinesehumanityanothertime,deliversthevisitorundertheentranceorthebuildingthemainentrance,evenonthestreet,thevisitorsaidtothemaster:"Please留步"Themasterfinallywantst
6、osaythat,"Walks""慢走""Againcomes".ThesespeechesallcannotstraighttranslateintoEnglish,ifStayhere,Goslowly,Walkslowly.Comeagainsoundsnottobepleasingtotheear,alsodoesnotconformtotheEnglishbeautifulwoman'scustom,actually,showsafaintsmileandmakestheexpressiongoodbyehandsignalorsaid:"Good-b
7、ye(goodbye),Seeyoulater(回头见),Solong.Takecare(goodbye,tookcare)may.9.Non-languagehumanrelationsculturaldifference10.Thehumanrelationsbehavioriscomposedbythelanguagebehaviorandthenon-speechacttwoparts,humanrelationsritualvulgarlyincludingthesetwokindofbehaviorshumanrelationsstandard.Th
8、ecultureisdi
