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1、Ladies:Beware'PhoenixMen'姑娘们，小心“凤凰男”Arecentsurveyofover35,500singleladiesinChinaofferssomeinsightintoChinesewomen'sattitudestowardsmenandmarriage.Thesurvey,whichincludedquestionssuchas"Whyareyoustillsingle?"and"Whatkindofmandoyouhopetomarry?"shedlightonthetypesofmenthatsingleChinesewo
2、menprefer,withsomesurprisingresults.近日，一份对超过35500名单身女性的调查反映了中国女性对于男人和婚姻的态度。该调查通过“为什么你还保持单身？”和“你希望和什么样的人结婚？”这样的问题来揭示出中国单身女性喜欢什么样的男人，结果出乎意料。While51.13percentofthewomensurveyedregarded"gettingmarried"astheirgoal,theyreportedthatthetopthreemaletraitsthatmadethemprefersingle-hoodweremen'sc
3、onstantinvolvementin"ambiguous"loveaffairs,theirtendencytotalkalotbutaccomplishlittle,andtheirstinginess.Whilethesefeelingsmayresonateglobally,whatsettheChinesemarriagemarketapartwererespondents'attitudestowardsmen,aswellastheirexpectationsandstandardsfortheirpotentialfuturehusbands.5
4、1.13%的受访者渴望结婚，而造成她们仍然保持单身原因中，排在前三位的男人的缺点分别是热衷于搞暧昧、说得多做得少和小气。这在全世界各个国家都是一样的，而真正使得中国的婚姻市场与众不同的是这些受访者对于男人的态度，以及对于她们潜在的未来丈夫的期望和要求标准。Whenasked"Whatkindofmenareyouwillingtomarry?"themostpopularresponsewas"adivorcedmanwhoownsahouseandcar,"followedby"asuccessful40-somethingmanwhohasgoneonalot
5、ofblinddatesbutisstillsingle."Interestingly--andevenabitsurprisingly--theleastpopularkindofman,cominginbehindeven"anunassumingcomputerprogrammer,"and"ahandsomefreelancer,"wastheso-called"phoenixman,"ahigh-levelcorporatemanagerwithalotofrelatives.Morebroadlydefined,a"phoenixman"issomeo
6、newhocamefromhumblebeginnings,madehiswaythroughschool,exhaustedresourcesofhisfamilyintheprocess,andwasexpectedtochangethefateofthefamilywhenheeventuallysucceeded.当问及“你想嫁个什么样的人？”的时候，得到的最多的答案是“一个有房有车的离了婚的男人”，紧随其后的答案是“相过很多亲但仍然单身的40多岁的成功人士。”既有趣又让人感到震惊的是排在最后的男人，甚至排在“屌丝程序员”和“小白脸自由职业者”之后，就是所
7、谓的凤凰男“一个有着许多亲戚的高级经理。”更加宽泛一点的定义是：所谓的凤凰男就是出身卑微，努力考上大学，花费了全家的积蓄，希望最终成功，借此来改变全家的命运。Insteadofbeingregardedasheroeswhochangedtheirowndestinies,"phoenixmen"havelongbeenunpopularintheChinesemarriagemarket,especiallyamong"peacockgirls"--thosefromurban,relativelywealthyfamilies.Womendislikewhat
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