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1、By:AngelaL0Friends&LoversMaturityinRelationshipsMaturity,Maturity,ingeneral,ismanythings.Maturityinaloverelationshipiseverything!Firstitistheabilitytobaseadecisionaboutaloverelationshiponthebigpicture-thelonghaul.Ingeneral,itmeansbeingabletopassupthefunforthemomentandselectthecourseofactionwhichwi

2、llpayofflater.LoveNoteTobecapableofreallovemeansbecomingmature,withrealisticexpectationsoftheotherperson.Itmeansacceptingresponsibilityforourownhappinessorunhappiness,andneitherexpectingtheotherpersontomakeushappynorblamingthatpersonforourbadmoodsandfrustrations~JohnA.SanfordInaloverelationship,it

3、meansbeingabletoenjoytheinstantgratificationthatcomeswiththeromanceofthemomentwhileknowingthebestisyettobeandbeingpatientwhileyouwatchyourlovegrow.Itisknowingthatbyworkingtogether,thestateofunconditionallovewillpresenceitselfintherelationshipandwillmaturewithtime.Itisknowingthatyougrowintoaloverel

4、ationship.Itdoesn'thappenallatonce.Maturelovepartnersseeknewwaystohelpeachothergrow.LoveRelationshipForaloverelationshiptomature,bothpartnersmustexperienceadeepfeeling,atacitbelief,thatthereissomethingquitespecialaboutthemwhichwouldneverhavehappenedhadeachnotcontributedtoitscreation.~LarryA.BugenL

5、oveNoteMaturelovers-loverswholoveunconditionally,developaknackforside-steppingresentmentandfocusingonthegoodtheyseeinoneanother.Theyhaveevolvedtoahigherlevelofunderstanding,onethattranscendstakingnoticeoftheimperfectionsoftheother.Maturelovepartnerspermiteachotherthefreedomtopursuetheirindividuali

6、nterestsandfriendswithoutrestriction.Thisiswhentrustpresentsitself.Matureloveallowsthislevelofseparatenesstobringloversclosertogether.Inthisscenarioseparatenessisperceivedasabond,notawedge.Itencourageslovepartnerstocelebratetheirownuniqueness.LoveNoteMatureloveoffersusourmostprofoundopportunityfor

7、regainingwholeness-notbecauseourpartnerswillfillallofouremptiness,butbecausewecanusetheembraceofalovingrelationshiptonurtureourselvestowardgreatermaturationandripening.~LarryA.BugenMaturityistheabilitytoharnessyo