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1、送礼是个技术活（Giftgivingisatechnicalactivity）GiftgivingisatechnicalactivityTherearealwayssomegiftspeoplecannotbeartolook,suchasformergirlfriendorheart-shapedstone;suchaswhenafreshfemale,receivedalightertouseanouveauriche;shorthairgirl,longhairandwaistcanbereceivedbytheredribbon......Ith
2、asbeenfoundthat,ingeneral,peopleonlylike10%ofthegiftstheyreceive.Ifyousendagifteverytime,youcanalwaysreceivetheexclamationoftheotherperson,youmustwatchcarefully.Butitdoesn'tmatter.Sincegiftsareaskill,thereisalwaysskilltolearn!Generalgiftgivingskills,packagedtoyou!Eleven,7daysoff,a
3、ndfinallyhavetimeand"goodbasefriends"together,longtimenosee,especiallywanttogiveTAagifttoreflectyourpartner'sfeelings.Orifacustomerwantstovisit,youwanttogiveTAagifttofeelwhatyouwant.Howdoyouchoosethefollowingscenarios?Whatkindofchoicecanreflectthevalueofgift?SituationoneKnowthatTA
4、usuallyliketoreadhistorybooks,recentlyhasasetofhistorybookspublished;inadditiontoseeinmicro-blog,TAsaidwanttostartwithabrandheadphones.Wouldyousendbooksorheadphones?Recommendedanswer:HeadsetGiftPsychology:agiftonawishlistismorefun"Listofwishes"?Doesn'tthatmeanI'mnotcareful?"Ifyout
5、hinkso,you'rewrong!HarvardUniversitySchoolofbusinesssurveyfoundthat,comparedtoothergifts,receivegiftsontheirown"wishlist",peoplewillbemoregrateful!Thegiverthinksthataslongasitisagift,nomatterwhetheritistheotherparty'sactiverequest,thesamewillbeappreciated.Eventhinkthatifyousendgif
6、tsonthelistoftheotherside,itwillappearcarelessandconsiderate.Thesurveyshowsthatinfactthegiftsofthepeoplejusttheopposite,theyreceivedthegiftonthelistmoregrateful,andthinkthatitismoreconsiderateandattentiveperformance.TheUnitedStatesthe"Journalofexperimentalpsychologyhaspublishedapa
7、perthatisactuallyneededreadygiftgiver,andtheygetveryclosetothefeelingoftherecipient.Accordingtobehavioralscientists,thestandardofgoodgiftsisaccuratedemandcontrol.Thenexttimeyoureallydon'tknowwhattogiveyou,insteadofpickingonyourhead,it'sbettertoaskforwhatyouwant.SituationtwoGoshopp
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