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1、TraditionalChineseParentingHuaShengzeng(2011:502),oneofChinesemostfamousbehaviormaster,statesthat"Ifyougivemesomehealthybabies,IdoutlivingintheenvironmentIdesignforthem,anyoneofthemwouldbeanykindsofexpertsuchasdoctors,layers,artists,successfulbusinessmenandsoon
2、."Thoughhisviewpointisalittleextreme,itsomehowindicateshowimportanttheparentingis.WhenspeakingaboutChineseparenting,theWestmayrealizethatChineseparentsaretoostrict,whichmaketheirchildrenachievegoodscoresandworkhard.However,traditionalChineseparentingisnotassimp
3、leastheythinkanditformsitsowncharacteristicsandsystemsthroughthedevelopmentofthousandsofyears.Intraditionalparentingsystem,ethicsisthecorecontent,requestingpeople'sbehaviordependingon"FilialPiety","loyalty"and"love".Inotherwords,parentsteachtheirchildrenhowtoco
4、nductyourself(HaoandDu,2011).YoumayaskmehowChineseparentseducatechildren,themainwayisparents'generalbehaviorandspeaking,whichcanbemodelsoftheirchildren.Inaddition,Chineseparentsputhowtobeapersonamoreimportantsituationthangivingknowledge.Nomaterwhatparentsdototh
5、eirchildren,theiraimistohelpkidsgrowwellandbeusefultofamilyandsociety.YuDan(2009),professorofBeijingNormalUniversity,believesthatChinesepeopletrustparenting.Aperson'sbehaviors,basicconceptsofvalueoftencomefromhisparentingeducation.Themostimportantoftraditionalp
6、arentingistomakethechildrenbecomethebestoftheirselves.IntraditionalChinesefamily,fathersandmothershavedifferentroles.Fatherisasynonymforstrict,asmotherisasynonymforlove.Dependingonsomereliableresearches,fathersbeingstrictwiththeirchildrenproperlyishelpfultothei
7、rchildren'sgrowing.MoreoverundertheinfluenceofChineseculture,parents'excessiveprotectingandinterferingdonotleadtochildren'spessimism,whichmaytothecontrarybebeneficial.FuCong'ssuccessisagoodexampletoillustratetraditionalparentingmethod.FuCongisoneofChinesemostfa
8、mouspianistsandhisfather,FuLei,isawell-knowntranslator.WhenFuCongisalittlechild,hisfatherisextremelystrictwithhim,whoisnotonlyaskingCongtoworkhardinpracticingpianobutalsoask