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1、相关链接Parentsoutoftouch 我们总以为父母不了解自己，可何时又曾找出合适的机会与他们沟通？ Yourparentsarethepeoplewhoarealwaysthereforyou,whetheryouhavefailedanexamorcometopoftheclass.However,manyteenagersignoretheirmothersandfathers,andevenquarrelwiththemoverlittlethings. Earlierthismonth,asurveyconductedatTianjinNo.3HighSchool
2、foundthat67percentofstudentssaidtheyoftenarguedwiththeirparents.Eightpercent,ofthemthinktheseproblemsareveryserious. "Manyparentsdon'tunderstanduswhenwegrowup,"saidFenShan,a17-year-oldgirlattheschool."Oursocietyisdevelopingveryquicklyandtherearemanynewthingsthatmyparentsdon'tunderstandaboutme.I
3、alwaystrytoletthemknowmoreaboutwhatteensaredoingandthinking,butitisquitedifficult." Someparents,though,tryhardtounderstandtheirchildren.Incertaincases,theyevenreadtheirchildren'sdiariestoknowwhat'sgoingon. "Theytreatuslikelittlekids,butwe'renotnow,"saidagirlnamedBinMengattheschool,"Myparentsof
4、tenhangupthephoneifaboycallsme,withoutaskingifitisimportantornot.Andmymumdoesn'tlikemespendingtimewithmyfriendsbecausesheisafraidIwillfindaboyfriend.ButIthinkIcanmanagemylifewell." Parentsalwayswantthebestfortheirchildrenbutthesehopesoftenturnintopainfullessonsforthekids. Forexample,WangYueisi
5、nterestedinmusic－somethingwhichisagainsthismother'swishes."ShehopesIcangotoagooduniversity,sosheonlywantsmetostudy,"saidthe17-year-oldboy. Manystudentsfinditdifficulttodealwiththeseproblemsbecauseofthegenerationgapbetweenthemselvesandtheirparents.ButZhaoXia,amentalhealthdoctoratTianjinNo.3HighS
6、chool,believesthatfamilymembersmustcommunicatewitheachotherifthechildrenaretodevelophealthily. "Communicationcanbebroughtupinmanyways,"shesaid."Forexample,youcansuggesta'weeklyfamilymeeting'sothateveryoneknowswhattheothershavedoneinthepastweek.Ifyouwouldlikeyourparentstobeyourfriends,sendthemca
7、rdsorspecialletters." It'ssaidthat"family"means"fatherandmotherIloveyou"－haveyoueversaidthistoyourparents? ByMengYingandPanYing 21stCentury20031229
