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1、TED英语演讲稿：二十几岁不可挥霍的光阴（附翻译）TED英语演讲稿：二十几岁不可挥霍的光阴（附翻译）wheniwasinmy20s,isawmyveryfirstpsychotherapyclient.iwasaph.d.studentinclinicalpsychologyatberkeley.shewasa26-year-oldwomannamedalex.nowalexwalkedintoherfirstsessionwearingjeansandabigslouchytop,andshedr
2、oppedontothecouchinmyofficeandkickedoffherflatsandtoldmeshewastheretotalkaboutguyproblems.nowwheniheardthis,iwassorelieved.myclassmategotanarsonistforherfirstclient.(laughter)andigotatwentysomethingwhowantedtotalkaboutboys.thisithoughticouldhandle.buti
3、didn'thandleit.withthefunnystoriesthatalexwouldbringtosession,itwaseasyformejusttonodmyheadwhilewekickedthecandowntheroad.thirty'sthenew20,alexwouldsay,andasfarasicouldtell,shewasright.workhappenedlater,marriagehappenedlater,kidshappenedlater,e
4、vendeathhappenedlater.twentysomethingslikealexandihadnothingbuttime.butbeforelong,mysupervisorpushedmetopushalexaboutherlovelife.ipushedback.isaid,sure,she'sdatingdown,she'ssleepingwithaknucklehead,butit'snotlikeshe'sgoingtomarrytheguy.
5、andthenmysupervisorsaid,notyet,butshemightmarrythenextone.besides,thebesttimetoworkonalex'smarriageisbeforeshehasone.that'swhatpsychologistscallanaha!moment.thatwasthemomentirealized,30isnotthenew20.yes,peoplesettledownlaterthantheyusedto,butth
6、atdidn'tmakealex's20sadevelopmentaldowntime.thatmadealex's20sadevelopmentalsweetspot,andweweresittingthereblowingit.thatwaswhenirealizedthatthissortofbenignneglectwasarealproblem,andithadrealconsequences,notjustforalexandherlovelifebutforth
7、ecareersandthefamiliesandthefuturesoftwentysomethingseverywhere.thereare50milliontwentysomethingsintheunitedstatesrightnow.we'retalkingabout15percentofthepopulation,or100percentifyouconsiderthatnoone'sgettingthroughadulthoodwithoutgoingthrought
8、heir20sfirst.raiseyourhandifyou'reinyour20s.ireallywanttoseesometwentysomethingshere.oh,yay!y'all'sawesome.ifyouworkwithtwentysomethings,youloveatwentysomething,you'relosingsleepovertwentysomethings,iwanttoseeokay.awesom
