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1、★精品文档★二十几岁不可挥霍的光阴（附翻译） wheniwasinmy20s,isawmyveryfirstpsychotherapyclient.iwasastudentinclinicalpsychologyatberkeley.shewasa26-year-oldwomannamedalex.nowalexwalkedintoherfirstsessionwearingjeansandabigslouchytop,andshedroppedontothecouchinmyofficeandkickedoffherflatsandtoldmeshewastheretotalka
2、boutguyproblems.nowwheniheardthis,iwassorelieved.myclassmategotanarsonistforherfirstclient.(laughter)andigotatwentysomethingwhowantedtotalkaboutboys.thisithoughticouldhandle. butididn’thandleit.withthefunnystoriesthatalexwouldbringtosession,itwaseasyformejusttonodmyheadwhilewekickedthecandownt
3、heroad.“thirty’sthenew20,”alexwouldsay,andasfarasicouldtell,shewasright.workhappenedlater,marriagehappenedlater,kidshappenedlater,evendeathhappenedlater.twentysomethingslikealexandihadnothingbuttime.2016全新精品资料-全新公文范文-全程指导写作–独家原创4/4★精品文档★ butbeforelong,mysupervisorpushedmetopushalexaboutherlove
4、life.ipushedback. isaid,“sure,she’sdatingdown,she’ssleepingwithaknucklehead,butit’snotlikeshe’sgoingtomarrytheguy.” andthenmysupervisorsaid,“notyet,butshemightmarrythenextone.besides,thebesttimetoworkonalex’smarriageisbeforeshehasone.” that’swhatpsychologistscallan“aha!”moment.thatwasthemome
5、ntirealized,30isnotthenew20.yes,peoplesettledownlaterthantheyusedto,butthatdidn’tmakealex’s20sadevelopmentaldowntime.thatmadealex’s20sadevelopmentalsweetspot,andweweresittingthereblowingit.thatwaswhenirealizedthatthissortofbenignneglectwasarealproblem,andithadrealconsequences,notjustforalexandh
6、erlovelifebutforthecareersandthefamiliesandthefuturesoftwentysomethingseverywhere. thereare50milliontwentysomethingsintheunitedstatesrightnow.we’retalkingabout15percentofthepopulation,or100percentifyou2016全新精品资料-全新公文范文-全程指导写作–独家原创4/4★精品文档★considerthatnoone’sgettingthroughadulthoodwithoutgoingt
7、hroughtheir20sfirst. raiseyourhandifyou’reinyour20s.ireallywanttoseesometwentysomethingshere.oh,yay!y’all’sawesome.ifyouworkwithtwentysomethings,youloveatwentysomething,you’relosingsleepovertwentysomethings,iwanttosee—okay.awesom
